• Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar
  • Home
  • About Us
  • Inspiring Moms
  • For Moms
  • Parenting
  • Outdoors
  • Pregnancy
  • Gift Ideas

Mommy High Five

Celebrating Mothers One Story at a Time

You are here: Home / For Kids / Nurture the Creative Mind of Children

Nurture the Creative Mind of Children

March 21, 2019 By Erin

Music-nurture-creativity
Creativity in music can open a child’s mind

One of the best parts of being a parent is marveling at the masterpieces your little people create, even if it is a macaroni necklace, a popsicle-stick frame, or a screechy song. Seeing the fruits of their labors and their great pride in what they have done is a special experience that always leaves you wanting more. The desire to nurture creativity is natural but knowing how to do that often isn’t so simple. It takes some careful thought and effort and a willingness to deal with some mess. Ok, a lot of mess. (Sometimes you may wish they were a little less creative actually, but that will pass when you see what creative venture they come up with next!)

My oldest child is very creative. He has always had a great love for animals so a lot of his creativity has been centered around them. He draws them and categorizes them. He makes books about their habits and abilities. He even does drawings and flip books of their life cycles. He has even created board games for the family to play! He amazes me all the time and I wonder where he got this natural creative ability. Knowing that he has such creative tendencies has prompted me to shift my thinking a little bit and consider how I can help him develop that creativity and increase his confidence in his abilities. I’ve learned a few things along the way.

Table of Contents

  • Discover their talents but keep an open mind.
  • Your reactions to their work should contain a balance between praise and kind constructive criticism.
  • Give them a dedicated space for their art activities—a table, desk, easel, writing nook, etc.
  • Provide supplies.
  • When the artistic mess gets overwhelming, focus instead on the possibilities of digital art.
  • Expose them to great literature and art so they are inspired by other great artists.
  • Show them your love for art.
  • Give them opportunities to show off a bit.
  • Teach them to use their art to bless the lives of other people.
  • Lastly, keep an open mind.

Discover their talents but keep an open mind.

creativity through drawing

You can’t force creativity, but you can encourage it and nurture it and allow it the space and resources it needs to flourish. An observant parent will easily start to notice their child’s natural talents and interests. Some of these abilities manifest quite early in life. One of my children, as I mentioned, loves to draw and create things with his hands, but another is a more linear thinker and showed strong musical potential very early in life. Having noticed the hobbies they were drawn to, I gave them opportunities to learn more and challenge themselves.

Exposing them to different activities will help you learn where their interests lie as well. But be careful not to exclusively label their abilities or assume that they are going to be a certain way. Hearing you say that they aren’t good at something may discourage them from learning any more about it and even if you never say it out loud, limiting them even in your mind may close your mind to possibilities for them in the future. And sometimes despite our best efforts, their interests lie elsewhere and no amount of exposure will create interest.

Your reactions to their work should contain a balance between praise and kind constructive criticism.

Expressing confidence and approval of our children’s good efforts is crucial for their self-esteem and our positive relationships with them, but letting them think there is no room for improvement isn’t doing them any favors. So alternate the praise with encouragement to stretch themselves and consider how they can improve. So “What do you think, Mom?” is sometimes answered with, “First tell me how you think you did.”

If the criticism is given sincerely and kindly, they will feel supported instead of cut down. This approach will also help them understand that building skills takes time. It doesn’t happen overnight. If you can give them some small specific things to work on, the tiny steps will seem manageable. Of course you don’t want to overwhelm them, but taking these steps with your help now will enable them to do it on their own in future.

Give them a dedicated space for their art activities—a table, desk, easel, writing nook, etc.

designated art space for creativity

Ours is nothing fancy—it’s a folding table with a couple caddies on top and a set of plastic drawers to the side. (It doubles as our homework area too.) But it has seen many many hours of use and countless masterpieces over the years. Some days my son spends several hours there! And having it in a designated space means that his mess isn’t all over the kitchen table or his bedroom. Keep them in the habit of organizing it regularly (he is assigned this chore at least once a week) and it will become their happy place.

Provide supplies.

Art supplies for creativity

When the materials are easily accessible, the creative juices seem to flow much more readily. Yes, 99% of it ultimately goes in the trash, either from discarded drafts or masterpieces that we kept for awhile (displayed on a bulletin board or his bedroom wall) but not forever. (When deciding what to save, I keep in mind that taking a picture of it is still remembering it. I only keep the physical copies of a very favorite few.)

I know sometimes it seems wasteful when you put a bunch of used supplies in the trash at once, but if it’s all gone toward him developing a talent and loving the process, isn’t it worth it? (Pro mom tips: Art supplies can really add up! I like to hit the dollar store for lots of our art supplies like popsicle sticks, straws, stickers, etc. Things can quickly get out of control though without some order so grab a few items to help with organization while you are there too. Another cost-effective option is buying the big craft jars that are full of a bunch of different supplies.)

When the artistic mess gets overwhelming, focus instead on the possibilities of digital art.

digital art creativity

There’s some amazing technology that can nurture creativity as well. You have probably seen some of the countless drawing apps with different brush options, colors, clip art, and stamps. My son particularly loves the app 3D Brush. You can also check out the website Canva.com though it might be better for a tween or teen than a younger child because there’s a lot of tools to learn. It’s free (with options to pay for more features) and I have used it quite a bit myself for word art, invitations, and cards. I’m sure that I’m barely scratching the surface here. Once you start to look, you’ll probably find some to your liking.

Expose them to great literature and art so they are inspired by other great artists.

creativity through reading

We do a weekly library trip to refill our literary options at home. When my son shows an interest in a topic, I will not only allow him to find and check out lots of books on the topic but I search them out too and I often find that the ones I pick he wouldn’t have chosen himself but he still ends up enjoying them. If he reads a book at school that he loves, I look up others in the series or by the same author so we can milk that interest for all it’s worth.

My son enjoyed the Fablehaven book series and felt inspired to draw an impressive multi-headed snake-like creature. I was amazed at all the detail in it. He’s been through How To Train Your Dragon phases a couple of times and done many many dragon drawings. Many cities also have art museums or children’s art museums that can inspire them in ways you never would have considered yourself. Your kids’ taste in books and art will mature as they get older, but the task now is to nurture their love for it and show them how fun it is to create something yourself and take pride in it.

Show them your love for art.

art museum

What art brings you joy? Certain music or an awe-inspiring painting? A favorite board game or book series? You get to pass on that love when you share it with your child. Read them books that you loved as a child or show them your favorite movies. There are so many forms of art and so many sources of possible inspiration. You can’t expect them to feel exactly as you do, but as you explain what you enjoy they will start to understand how art brings people joy.

Give them opportunities to show off a bit.

Show their artwork to their teachers or their grandparents or other adults in their life. They will heap on the praise! And you’ll see your child’s confidence grow even more. You can also keep an eye out for contests your child can enter. You may learn of opportunities through their school, the local library, your city, or another organization. My son recently learned about the Doodle 4 Google contest and has been planning his entry. Putting special effort into a contest entry is confidence-building, even if they don’t win.

Teach them to use their art to bless the lives of other people.

service through art

A hand-drawn card is a treasured gift to any grandparent, aunt, or uncle. I also encourage my children to create their own cards for friends’ birthdays. If you’re really feeling ambitious, you could have them design Valentines or Christmas/holiday cards for their school class. My son loves to let his siblings choose an animal for him to draw for them and they love that he spent time on something just for them. The point is just to help them see that they can bring joy to others with their art as well.

Lastly, keep an open mind.

They might like different art than you do. Maybe they will be drawn to comic books or music or photography or something new you’ve never even heard of. But as long as it’s a wholesome direction, nurture it and see where it leads!

My goal for my children’s creativity has never been that they will grow up to be successful or famous artists—maybe art will always be a side hobby and that’s fine. My goal is just to nurture their creativity so they can experience the happiness it brings. I think that’s a worthwhile goal and I think my son does too! I hope these tips will strengthen your confidence in your unique ability to nurture your child’s creativity so it will blossom beautifully.

Facebooktwitterredditpinterest

Related Posts:

  • Great Gifts for 2-Year-Old Girls 2023
    Great Gifts for 2-Year-Old Girls 2023
  • 33 Cool Toys for 4-Year-Old Boys 2023
    33 Cool Toys for 4-Year-Old Boys 2023
  • 26 Fun and Unique Toys for 4-Year-Old Girls in 2023
    26 Fun and Unique Toys for 4-Year-Old Girls in 2023

Filed Under: For Kids, Blog, For Moms

Mommy High Five writers and editors carefully select products highlighted in articles. We may receive a commission if you click on a link and make a purchase.

FOLLOW US

Facebookpinterestrssyoutubeinstagram

Trending Articles

  • 17 Best LEGO Technic Sets for 2023
  • Cool and Popular Toys for 3 Year-Old-Boys 2023
  • 26 Fun and Unique Toys for 4-Year-Old Girls in 2023
  • Great Gifts for 2-Year-Old Girls 2023
  • Top 14 Toy Kitchens for Young Boys and Girls 2023
  • 17 Best Action Cameras for Teens and Tweens 2023
  • 26 Best Toys for 11-Year-Old Boys 2023
  • 33 Cool Toys for 4-Year-Old Boys 2023
  • 32 Cool Gifts for 6-Year-Old Boys 2023
  • Troomi Safe Phone Honest Review

Share This Page

Facebooktwitterredditpinterest

© 2015–2023 • Mommy High Five • All Rights Reserved. MommyHighFive.com is a participant in the Amazon Services LLC Associates Program, an affiliate advertising program designed to provide a means for sites to earn advertising fees by advertising and linking to Amazon.com.