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Five Strategies to Avoid Raising a Picky Eater

August 20, 2018 By Lauren

I took my kids to lunch. We didn’t go to McDonald’s or Chic-fil-A. We didn’t even pick a place with a play area. My five-year old son chose a sushi restaurant. My two-year old daughter agreed with his choice. We ordered a couple of rolls and ate up: a delightful little lunch date with my progeny.

how to get kids to eat a variety of foods

I never liked sushi. Not as a kid. Not as an adult. Not after friends and family tried, determinedly, to help me realize its culinary scrumptiousness.

You know how you aren’t “allowed” to eat sushi during pregnancy? Well, that’s when I ate it and finally liked it. Actually. I loved it. And I didn’t love much during pregnancy. I’m one of those lucky moms who gets to be sick the entire pregnancy!

I am amazed that my kids not only tolerate but love sushi.

Feeding kids demands a special level of patience. I understand that kids are truly unique and come with their own strong-willed opinions, whether it’s about how they dress themselves or the food they will agree to consume.

With that said, these are the five strategies my husband and I have used to raise our kids to be excellent eaters. This is what has worked for us. Have you tried any and do they work with your kids?

Table of Contents

  • 1. Baby-led Weaning (BLW)
  • 2. Providing options without forcing kids to eat everything
  • 3. Make food with a variety of veggies
  • 4. Try new things!
  • 5. Leading by example

1. Baby-led Weaning (BLW)

The first thing we started with was BLW. If this is a new term for you, you might think baby-led weaning is the technique we used to wean our kids off of breastmilk and formula. I thought that at first. But, it’s actually the term for weaning kids ON to solid food, starting around 4-6 months old.

It’s pretty common for baby’s first solid foods to be cereals or pureed jars of food. With BLW, though, you’re giving them solid food in a different way. Check out this great printable on when and how to try it out.

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BLW is encouraging self-feeding by giving baby soft-cooked, cut or mashed food instead of purees, spoon-fed by mom or dad.

I loved BLW for my kids because they basically ate whatever we ate for dinner and I wasn’t buying specific cans of baby food or pureeing something separately (although I did do that at times). We did baby-led weaning more consistently with my daughter (my son was in full-time daycare so you approach parenting differently). She learned to feed herself early and made a ton of messes. She ate dinner with the family, initially sitting on the table in her Bumbo with the tray, then joining us in a high chair that pushed up to the table. (Don’t worry: we all sat around her in the Bumbo so no falling from high places!)

What is baby-led weaning

My daughter also learned three important things about food: she was in charge of what, how much, and how quickly she wanted to eat. Feeding her solid food was less stressful for me, too, because I no longer worried about those three things. I remember one evening, when my son was about 6 months old, I was trying to get him to eat some rice cereal before bedtime because I was sure that it would stick in his tummy longer so he’d finally sleep through the night and I could get some rest. Yeah. He probably picked up on my anxiety and thought, “No way, mom. I ain’t eating this stuff!”

I was happy to hand over the food decisions to my daughter, which brings us to our next strategy.

2. Providing options without forcing kids to eat everything

I grew up being told, “You can’t leave the table until you eat everything on your plate.” I think a lot of us experienced the same thing. Our parents wanted us to be good eaters, especially if we were fussy eaters!

In college, I took a nutrition class where I learned a new strategy for teaching kids to eat healthy: providing them options and allowing them to choose what and how much.

This sounded better to me than having to stay at the table until I choked down the butternut squash staring back at me on my plate!

Now that I’m a parent, I’ve learned that this strategy isn’t fool-proof. Kids want to leave the table and go play! I have to find balance between when my kids think they’ve eaten enough and when I think they have.

Give kids food options

I try to give them options and let them know they have to at least eat some of their vegetables. Maybe they’ll try a little bit of that pesky butternut squash and then say, “No way!” They need to choose another healthy option on their plate, then.

Speaking of veggies…

3. Make food with a variety of veggies

My son’s healthcare provider told us that we should feed him more green veggies. This was easy advice for me to follow when my husband cooked our meals. All I had to do was remind him, “Don’t forget to include some kale this week!”

Including vegetables in meals doesn’t necessarily mean giving them a few extra sides. If we can incorporate it into our food, our kids will eat more. My husband does a good job of mixing it into pastas. My kids will go for chard or kale when it’s pan-fried until crispy.

Making food with a variety of vegetables for kids to prevent fussy eaters

My husband also makes a delicious meatloaf, which starts with a mirepoix—which is a mixture of celery, onions, and carrots, sautéed until soft—added to the meat mixture.

Earlier this week, I made a pesto sauce that included spinach. It’s pretty easy to do when you simply dump the ingredients in a food processor and turn it on!

It’s fun to experiment with food, which brings us to the next strategy!

4. Try new things!

I am now in charge of cooking most meals, which means we’ve tried a lot of new things simply because I need recipes and my husband doesn’t. One evening, he suggested that I put together a spreadsheet of the recipes that I’d tried and keep track of whether or not our kids liked them.

I do love using spreadsheets for everything. He knows me!

Instead, I took a more visual approach and created a separate Instagram account. For home-cooked meals, I take a picture of the plated food, post it to the account, and include a note about whether it was a #winner or a #loser. Now that I’ve been doing this for a while, I can open up that account and scroll through pictures of food, looking for ideas of what to make this week.

Teach kids to try new foods

I continue to try out new things and my kids are willing to try them with me. I’ll print out new recipes, then tweak them for our liking. That’s how we put together our own recipe for Instant Pot chicken shwarma with homemade laffa bread. It was a definite #winner!

Because we try out new things as often as we do, my kids have learned to be willing to at least try one bite. There were many nights where dinner was a total #loser and we resorted to fruit and veggie packets from the store. Those things are the best! How did our parents raise us without them?

Fruit & Veggie Variety Pack

Speaking of parents… here’s our last strategy!

5. Leading by example

Leading by example is the hardest and best way to teach your kids anything. Being a good eater (instead of a picky eater) is one of them, which is hard for me when I want my kids to eat seafood! I try to pretend it’s delicious so my kids want to try. Do you ever do this? It helps me to remember that our taste is malleable. You can change your palate if you are willing. Those smart scientists (thanks, Harvard!), have evidence that we can be in charge of what tastes good to us by what we choose to eat.

So, if you want to change your own food preferences, work on it for a few weeks. You’ll be surprised by the change.

teaching kids to eat healthy

By the way: I still like sushi and I plan to never be pregnant again!

 

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